It was 5:00 p.m. on Thursday, March 1, 2012—St David’s Day, a very special occasion for all Welshmen. Saint David, known as Dewi Sant in Welsh, is our Patron Saint. I sat in my home office, propped up in a wheelchair, having reached yet another milestone in my two-and-a-half-year wait on the transplant list in my quest to stay alive. I was being supported by a remarkable intravenous drug called Milrinone. I wondered if I would make it to the next milestone I had set for myself; I doubted it and had largely resigned myself to my impending demise. I was almost looking forward to it.
Suddenly, the phone rang, and the caller ID displayed ‘Duke, 919 area code.’
“Hello… Mr. Carden?”
“Yes?”
“This is Melissa from Duke Transplant; we have a heart for you. How quickly can you get to Duke Hospital?”
I had always imagined achieving one of those bucket list items: racing through the streets at breakneck speed and getting pulled over by the police. I pictured the officer asking me what I thought I was doing, and I would reply, “I’m on my way for a heart transplant!” The officer would then tell me to follow him, and we would zoom off together in a cloud of smoke, sirens wailing and blue lights flashing!
The journey was 60.7 miles and took 58 minutes from Jamestown, NC, to Duke University Hospital. Surprisingly, I didn’t see a single police officer the entire trip!